Saturday, May 9, 2026

The Dialogue of the Head vs. the Heart

I think about this bit in a letter from Thomas Jefferson to Maria Cosway (October 12, 1786) now and again:

The art of life is the art of avoiding pain: & he is the best pilot who steers clearest of the rocks & shoals with which he is beset. Pleasure is always before us; but misfortune is at our side: while running after that, this arrests us. The most effectual means of being secure against pain is to retire within ourselves, & to suffice for our own happiness.

The larger context isn't the point here.  It just resonates with an introvert who has had...suboptimal experiences navigating human relationships.

Selah.

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